Any fool with sperm can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
Yesterday in Golden Gate Park, the place was swarming with them. From an outsider’s perspective the park dads were just hanging out with their daughters and sons. Nothing special. But what do outsiders know? Bupkis. Except for this blogger, who could plainly see that those dads were transmitting powerful messages to their kids:
You are good.
You are capable.
You are fun to be with.
You are worthy of love.
You have my heart and I’ve got your back… always in all ways.
Obviously having a dad like that benefits a human being’s development. Multiply it by millions of dads and kids and we’re also looking at a tidy payoff for society. Way to go, Dad!
Twenty years down the road, those messages will have infused themselves into the DNA of a new crop of parents. Think I’ll come back and take some more pictures.
Happy Dad’s Day to you and to the kids lucky enough to know you.